It took me a couple of days to figure out the right way to install ffmpeg-php extension for php, so i documented all the instructions to not waste another 2 days for me and anyone interested
i started with http://www.amman-dj.com/Slim/2008/01/29/how-to-installing-ffmpeg-mplayer-flvtool-2-and-ffmpeg-php-4-youtube-clone-script/ but didn’t work with me and i needed more plugins, so i modified it and added the other packages
enjoy
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# add dag repository
rpm -Uhv http://apt.sw.be/redhat/el5/en/i386/rpmforge/RPMS/rpmforge-release-0.3.6-1.el5.rf.i386.rpm
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# update system
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# Download Packages
mkdir ~/ffmpeg-packages
cd ~/ffmpeg-packages
wget http://www3.mplayerhq.hu/MPlayer/releases/codecs/essential-20061022.tar.bz2
wget http://rubyforge.org/frs/download.php/9225/flvtool2_1.0.5_rc6.tgz
wget http://downloads.xiph.org/releases/ogg/libogg-1.1.3.tar.gz
wget http://downloads.xiph.org/releases/vorbis/libvorbis-1.1.2.tar.gz
wget http://liba52.sourceforge.net/files/a52dec-0.7.4.tar.gz
wget http://downloads.sourceforge.net/faac/faad2-2.6.1.tar.gz
wget http://downloads.sourceforge.net/faac/faac-1.26.tar.gz
wget http://superb-east.dl.sourceforge.net/sourceforge/lame/lame-3.98b8.tar.gz
wget http://www.tortall.net/projects/yasm/releases/yasm-0.7.0.tar.gz
wget ftp://ftp.videolan.org/pub/videolan/x264/snapshots/x264-snapshot-20080630-2245.tar.bz2
wget http://downloads.xvid.org/downloads/xvidcore-1.1.3.tar.gz
wget http://www.linux1394.org/dl/libraw1394-1.3.0.tar.gz
wget http://mesh.dl.sourceforge.net/sourceforge/ffmpeg-php/ffmpeg-php-0.5.3.1.tbz2
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# Install SVN/Ruby
yum install subversion
yum install ruby
yum install ncurses-devel
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# Extract all the source files
bunzip2 essential-20061022.tar.bz2; tar xvf essential-20061022.tar
tar zxvf flvtool2_1.0.5_rc6.tgz
bunzip2 ffmpeg-php-0.5.3.1.tbz2; tar xvf ffmpeg-php-0.5.3.1.tar
tar zxvf libogg-1.1.3.tar.gz
tar zxvf libvorbis-1.1.2.tar.gz
tar -zxf a52dec-0.7.4.tar.gz
tar zxf faad2-2.6.1.tar.gz
tar zxfv faac-1.26.tar.gz
tar zxfv lame-3.98b8.tar.gz
tar zfvx yasm-0.7.0.tar.gz
bunzip2 < x264-snapshot-20080630-2245.tar.bz2 | tar -xf -
tar zxfv xvidcore-1.1.3.tar.gz
tar zxfv libraw1394-1.3.0.tar.gz
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#Create the codecs directory & import them
mkdir /usr/local/lib/codecs/
mv essential-20061022/* /usr/local/lib/codecs/
chmod -R 755 /usr/local/lib/codecs/
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# Install Lame
cd lame-3.98b8
export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/usr/local/lib
./configure
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install libOGG
cd libogg-1.1.3
./configure
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install libVorbis
cd libvorbis-1.1.2
./configure
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install flvtool2
cd flvtool2_1.0.5_rc6
ruby setup.rb config
ruby setup.rb setup
ruby setup.rb install
cd ..
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# Install a52
cd a52dec-0.7.4
./configure --enable-shared=PKGS
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install FAAD2
cd faad2
autoreconf -vif
./configure --disable-drm --disable-mpeg4ip
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install FAAC
cd faac
./bootstrap
./configure --disable-mp4v2
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install yasm
cd yasm-0.7.0
./configure
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install x264
cd x264-snapshot-20080630-2245
./configure --enable-shared
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install Xvid
cd xvidcore-1.1.3/build/generic
./configure
make
make install
cd ../../..
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# Install libraw1394
cd libraw1394-1.3.0
./configure
make dev
make
make install
cd ..
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# Install libdc1394
yum install libdc1394 libdc1394-devel
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# Install libtheora
yum install libtheora libtheora-devel
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# Install vlc & mplayer
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# Install ffmpeg
svn checkout svn://svn.mplayerhq.hu/ffmpeg/trunk ffmpeg
cd ffmpeg
./configure --enable-gpl --enable-postproc --enable-nonfree --enable-postproc --enable-libfaad --enable-avfilter --enable-pthreads --enable-libxvid --enable-libx264 --enable-libmp3lame --enable-liba52 --enable-libfaac --disable-ffserver --disable-ffplay --enable-libtheora --enable-libvorbis --enable-shared
make
make install
export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/usr/local/lib
cd ..
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# Install FFMPEG-PHP (make sure the php.ini path is correct.)
cd ffmpeg-php-0.5.3.1
phpize
./configure
make
make install
echo 'extension=ffmpeg.so' >> etc/php.ini
cd ..
service httpd restart
php -r 'phpinfo();' | grep ffmpeg